🚪 Should I Break Up With Him?
When you can’t tell if it’s time to walk away.
📋 How this works
- 1 Select one answer for each question
- 2 Note the points next to your answer (1-4 points)
- 3 Add up your total score at the end
- 4 Check the results table to see what it means
📊 Your Results
What Your Score Means
💕 Stay & Work On It
The foundation is there. Every relationship has hard seasons, and yours is worth fighting for. But both of you need to show up. Have the hard conversations. Consider counseling. Don’t ignore the small cracks — they become canyons.
🤷♀️ The Middle Ground
You have good and bad, but the scales aren’t tipped clearly. This is where people stay for years and wake up wondering where the time went. Try a serious, no-distractions conversation. Write down what you need. If nothing changes in 30 days, you have your answer.
⚠️ Consider Leaving
There’s more bad than good, and you know it. You’re likely staying out of comfort, fear, or habit. But comfort isn’t love. Ask yourself: If your best friend described this relationship, what would you tell them? You deserve better than “it’s okay.”
🚪 It’s Time To Go
You already know. The question was never “should I leave?” — it was “how?” The relief you feel when imagining being alone isn’t a sign you hate being single. It’s a sign you hate being with him. Make a plan. Reach out to friends. You’ll be okay on the other side.
📔 Before you go…
Write down what you would tell your best friend if they were in this situation. Sometimes the answer is clearer when it’s not about us.