💔 Does He Love Me?

8 questions to separate love from attachment. Be honest.

📋 How this works

1 Select one answer for each question
2 Note the points next to your answer (1, 2, or 4 points)
3 Add up your total score at the end
4 Check the results table to see what it means

QUESTION 1

Does he include you in his future plans?

Yes, we talk about next year together
+4

Sometimes, but vaguely
+2

No, he avoids future talk
+1

QUESTION 2

How does he look at you when you aren’t looking?

With warmth and admiration
+4

I’ve never noticed
+2

He’s usually on his phone
+1

QUESTION 3

Does he listen to you, or just wait to talk?

He remembers small details I mention
+4

He listens sometimes
+2

He interrupts or zones out
+1

QUESTION 4

How does he act when you’re sick or having a bad day?

He shows up and takes care of me
+4

He sends a text but that’s it
+2

He’s distant or annoyed
+1

QUESTION 5

Does he introduce you to important people in his life?

Yes, I know his family and close friends
+4

I’ve met a few people
+2

No, I’m kept separate
+1

QUESTION 6

How often does he say ‘I love you’?

Regularly, and it feels genuine
+4

Only when I say it first
+2

Never or very rarely
+1

QUESTION 7

Does he make time for you even when busy?

Yes, he prioritizes us
+4

Sometimes, if I ask
+2

No, I’m always last
+1

QUESTION 8

How do you feel when you’re with him?

Safe, valued, and happy
+4

Anxious or unsure
+2

Lonely even when together
+1

📊 Your Results

Add up your points from all 8 questions:

What Your Score Means

8-15

💔 He Probably Doesn’t

The signs point to him not being fully invested. You deserve someone who chooses you without hesitation. Don’t settle for breadcrumbs when you deserve the whole loaf.

16-24

🤔 Mixed Signals

Sometimes he’s there, sometimes he’s not. This ambiguity is itself a sign. Have an honest conversation about where this is going. You shouldn’t have to decode someone’s feelings.

25-32

❤️ He Loves You

His actions show love. Not perfect, because no one is, but he’s in this with you. The foundation is there — nurture it, communicate, and keep choosing each other.

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